Shocking news !!!

My condolences go out to Park Yong Ha actor.

he's one of my fav. actor too..

quite shock to hear this sad news..

didn't expect something like this to happen...

it's so sad...

but the fact of why he suicide still be a question..

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say what u want to say..

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Never lose hope.

Under the proper conditions of love, faith, and belief,

transformation is quite possible.

Having so much fun these day...

time ticking fast...

very fast...

Dear Misha, please do take care...

we will always miss u...

i enjoy the farewell party very much^^

and be confident wit yrself, cos u are who U R...

don't forget our pinky promise...

.......

next thing is..

i got a part time job...

i'm so excited + nervous...

cos it's my first time...but i still happy for that..

thnks god...

go out with my cousins today...

i'm always happy when i'm with them..

so happy...thnks again god cos u let me have the best cousins ever...

<3..

lots of love 4 tdy..

and ....

..., ... ... ...?

. ... ... .....!!!

.....-_-,,,,

another message 4 ^-^...

god bless me...n my family,

also for my lil bro..it's his birthday...

let him be lucky, healthy, and chubby alwys..

love him so much...-__-

tht's all...

suddenly..

i miss my classmate..

ACD 6a1..

Another day...

we don't remember days,

we remember moments..

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its Tuesday...

"stop talking if that would make someone heart in tears.."

i made stupid mistake today...

simple and small mistake..

-__-

I've got six days left..

will enjoy life to the fullest...

tomorrow

i don't hate it...

but just thinking about it make my head spinning hard..

have many things to be done..

1.Meet the tenant..

2.Last farewell party for Misha..

3.Meet my best friend Debra..

luckily my cousin cancelled the plan for tomorrow..

i may not accomplish one of the thing above...

that's why it's hard to be A person..

A person who take responsible for something..

...

i request for a prayer today..

something sound stupid..

but i believe in second chance..

and diz time i'll make it better..

Dear god,pls let me wake up with a smile on my face...

even though today will be tough a bit..

let me face it calmly...

and i think of u again today...

be healthy and smile always..

a message to u

'당신을 사랑합니다'

Good Morning MONDAY...

the farewell party is over...

i wake up so early today...

i have dis uneasy feeling rite now..

Misha, will miss u so much...

goodbye hug...also Yatie & BB, please come back^^

Love is everywhere..let's love

Today

i love u again..!!!

secretly admiring u..

"if you love someone you say it, you say it right then, out loud. Otherwise the moment just...
Passes you by... "-my best friend's wedding quote..

and i bravely telling u, yeah, i'm in love with u..

i may not shout it in front of u...

but, seriously i am..

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Sunday night, the day after 2morrow!!!

It's the farewell party for misha..-_-

actually for lysa n Iana + shafa too..

but they can't make it...

only misha here^^

let's get the party started...

IT's KARAOKE time...

Misha, yatie and yifei seems enjoying themselves very much...

and i busy with my download'g things...

still crazy here over shinhwa...

1st Andy, next Eric..and the now all of the members...

oh...all of them is great^^

have their own charm...

and while i'm writing here...

i enjoyed watching them...

i will miss this moment after this...

it just a sweet memories...

we don't want to forget...

or maybe we will,

but there's a time we will recall it back..

coz, it still our sweet unforgettable memories..

They singing BURUNG KAKAK TUA now>>>:)

i have many sweet memories now....

nicer than the time when i'm in high school...

someday, when i'm old already...

this memories, pictures...

will make me smile..

and laugh alone like a crazy person..if that day..(i'm still single)

but maybe if i'm taken that time..

i'll share it with my someone special( wonder who it will be)

the day after 2morrow..

how it will be...

we will go to our own way now...

misha will go to melaka,...

it's sad...

but that's what REUNION all about...

we can always meet during the break...

and always stay as the best ACD6A1 ever...

it will never be the end..

it's just another beginning,,..

it's getting late...

oh i wish time stop now,..

rewind back...

^^

so long and good nite..

SHINHWA

just addicted to them rite now..

DBSk senpai^^..

just finish watching We got married Anbi..

they look cute 2gether..

i really like Andy opp so much...

every girl dream guy...

he's got everything a girl want their boyfriend to have..

^_^

i don't really know abt this group at 1st, ..i do know Eric Mun oppa..

he's the hero in Que sera sera korean drama...cool guy....like him too^^

but i don't even know he's one of shinhwa group members...

and now, i'm crzy over them...

watch all their mv n gameshow..

they r funny, same like DBSk..

oh i miss them so much..

it's been a long time didn't here any news bout five of them...

i know abt the three voices concert by JAECHUNSU..

but it's only three of them..not five...

i wish they will performed again as five...

i don't know wht really happen btween SM and Dbsk members...

but i don't want them to disband...

;(...Changmin n Yunho r still under SM, if i'm not mistaken...

i hope this two person will join the others member, coz they suppose to support each other..

Oh my Changmin oppa...

what is going on exactly...

...so sad, thre r many boyband groups rite now...

but all of them can't replaced you all...all five of u, still the best...

always the best...

so let's stop this things..

and get back 2gether again as five...

many other fans outside waiting for five of u, ...

so let's not disappointed us...

KEEP IN FAITH...

hope u all get MIN woo oppa (SHINHWA) message:

“My dear younger brothers, TVXQ does not just belong to TVXQ. Don’t think too much and over-complicate things, just keep thinking about your fans who have spent precious times with you and who have always protected you. I hope that all of you can steadfastly protect the proud name of TVXQ. You definitely can’t disband, hyung is counting on you. After the current issue is resolved, the 11 of us should go out and have fun.“

Watch this !!! SIGNs

http://www.youtube.com/watch%3Fv%3Duy0HNWto0UY

Seems like no one’s too ugly or disgusting for love.

There’s something worth loving in everyone, maybe not by you but someone.

Love isn’t easy, but Love is not hard. Those truly willing to Love, must be willing to become selfless.

Most importantly, these are the 10 key ways to truly Love.

1. Listen without interrupting. (Proverbs 18)

2. Speak without accusing. (James 1:19)

3. Give without sparing. (Proverbs 21:26)

4. Pray without ceasing. (Colossians 1:9)

5. Answer without arguing. (Proverbs 17:1)

6. Share without pretending. (Ephesians 4:15)

7. Enjoy without complaint. (Philippians 2:14)

8. Trust without wavering. (Corinthians 13:7)

9. Forgive without punishing. (Colossians 3:13)

10. Promise without forgetting. (Proverbs 13:12)

- DSV&JSU.

a message I think more people need to hear

A lot of people take too much from the person they care about - be it in a romantic relationship, a friendship, a family member, whatever. I’m not telling anyone what to do long term, but I need to put this out there for people who are facing this negative and unhealthy behavior right now.

I don’t believe in the word “if” when it comes to love - if he loves me, he’ll do this, if she’s a good friend, she’ll do that, if my dad wants to make me happy, he’ll do it - because I don’t think it’s right to put conditions on other people and their actions. However, I also don’t think it’s right to let people treat you badly and excuse it - if he really didn’t love me, the hit would have left a mark, if my mom was actually controlling she’d open ALL of my mail, if they really were talking behind my back, they wouldn’t have offered to let me read those texts - because when people treat you badly, there is no justification. Are there ways their behavior can be explained? I’m sure there are - be it that they’re being abused themselves and are transferring the feelings onto you, or that they suffer from mental illness, or they have addiction issues, or what have you, but those factors don’t justify their behavior. They don’t make it okay. They don’t mean that if you really love them, you have to suck it up and deal with what they say or do that makes you feel bad.

Self love is so important. There’s a quote from Lucille Ball that I really like, and I’ll paraphrase it here, “to get anything done in this world, you really have to love yourself. love yourself first, and everything else falls into line”. Love yourself and think of what makes you happy as an individual - does crying yourself to sleep because someone crossed a line in that arguement make you feel good? Does keeping secrets from him or her because you don’t trust them make you feel loved? Does the fact that they were just drinking and didn’t really mean it make you feel like you did before it happened? No, it doesn’t. Sometimes you can excuse behavior until you’re sore in the throat, but does it really make you feel better? Do you want a relationship with someone whose actions you need to justify?

I’m not saying you need to cut these people out of your life or burn bridges or leave them a million nasty voicemails.. .But what I’m asking you is to love yourself. To get up in the morning and not think about what their opinion of you is. To go through your day without worrying about what will happen later - will he call? will she be in a bad mood when I get home? does she REALLY like me? - and concentrate on aspects of yourself no one can take away from you - books, music, films, nature, volunteering, whatever. Something that makes you happy and secure and safe without being contingent on someone else.

At the end of the day, you don’t need to take someone’s bad behavior, no matter what role they have in your life. There are always scenarios where you can’t just up and walk away, but that doesn’t mean you have to feel bad about yourself or let their behavior bring you down. If you need to cry, cry; but focus on making yourself happy and giving yourself hope for better days. If you can get out, please do, and if he or she or they apologize and want to try again, think about it and make your own decision. If you can’t get out right now, just know that you’re worth all the love and respect which is inherent to all people and love yourself the way you deserve.

Joy on the horizon...

Good times and bad times are part of living.

It is difficult to fully appreciate joy until you have tasted sadness.

Laughter is sweeter if you have experienced tears.

There may be times when you feel like you're stuck in a dry and desolate place,

but an encouraging call or a hug from a friend can be an oasis;

beauty in the desert.

Though it may not be easy,

try to remember that the trials are going to help you fully experience the joy on the horizon.

Is it what it is..

I'll start with this.."THANKS"

i don't know what it is really...

but...u make me...speechless...

U, is that what u really want to do...

coz i'm really happy for that...

i don't know how much u care abt this matter but i care BOUT it everyday..

maybe there's a time u hate me very much...

or maybe i just annoying but...

tht's me..

please don't hate me for that,.

be patient with me..

and i'm sorry for any bad things i ever done..mybe,

without notice..u just get angry with it..

i'm sorry, coz truthfully i didn't mean to do it...

i like u the way u are...

once again, THANKS>>

i've been so stressed this day..

almost givin up on u,

but God has answer one of my question today...

god bless u..

i'm glad god let me know u...

God bless u owez...

Boring!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

it's so boring here...

want to go out but my housemate still got paper to sit...

ohw...and im thinking whether i should go back or no...

aishhhhh....still have many thing to be decided....

ahhh...why we always got problem to solve...aishhhh...

Pray for what you want, but work for the things you need.

It's time to stop worrying about others...

because it's U who in pain if u still doing so...

Life can be very difficult, although u not ask for it...

and stop being a timid person...

handle things before things handle u....

i have many questions in my head...

and i really want to know the answer...

oh i wish i know it before it became the question...

ah...why do people think...

wish and hope...

and why do people get scared...

it's scary, ppl end up being this...

i wish i can stop thinking for a day...

and for some reason..

i really want to be a successful person..

just once..

coz...i always failed from the beginning until now..

i also wish that someday i can speak up my mind..

speak out loud what i;m thinking..

coz it's tiring to just keep it deep inside your heart,,..

don't ever judge others...

coz we will never be better than them...

maybe we much worst than the ppl we talking about...

i'm tired of everything...

hate all the uninvited feelings....

last, i wish i can go back when i was 12 years old...

maybe things will be totally different now...

A letter to you, whoever, wherever you are.

Dear…

Oh, that’s right.

Forgive me. I do not know your name. Or if I do, I don’t know which one it is in the sea of names "sloshing" around in my mind.

As of this writing, I have lived twenty one years without you. Twenty wonderful, excellent, irreplaceable years. Every single one of them had turned out exactly as I had hoped, nearly as I had expected. That’s how I live. I live close to my expectations. I never go too far from the sidewalk.

And there you are, somewhere in existence, about to swoop in on me from oblivion — about to crash into my life and leave me dazed, angry, weeping, vulnerable, and afraid.

I’ll be honest with you. I cannot wait. I cannot wait for you to come and mess up my life.

Because if you are who I think you are, then I can do it. I can surpass anything you will throw at me.

For I will love you.

I may have never crossed paths with you at all yet. I also may have been hanging unwittingly around you all this time. We may be best friends. We may be worst enemies. We may not notice each other in the corridors. I may have just ignored your Facebook friend request, or you mine.

I ask — no, I beg. I beg for a hint, a sign, a clue — perhaps anything. Because I need someone to write beautiful poems about; to annoy everyday through SMS; to keep in mind when composing vague, mushy Tumblr posts; to look small in one of my T-shirts (when we get married, of course); to whom I and my kids can serve a burnt and soggy breakfast-in-bed on Mother’s Day; to fix my tie before a medical conference; to have.

You’re out there, somewhere. I can feel it in my bones. I hope you know how excited I am to meet you. You are the most beautiful thing that will ever happen to me, after all.

I am so excited to love you.

You don’t know how sincerely,

The Exam is over...

Finally it's over... :(

i don't think the results will be better...

but let's wait and see...

huh..._Big sigh_

been skip'g many movies these few weeks...

going to watch marathon movies this weekend with my house mate for the last time..

so sad...going to miss all of them after this...

i only have one week holiday this time..

oh mi god...

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have fun with jenn, mala n BB tdy,...

Beautiful Maria.....

Truth Or Dare

TrUTH OR DAre..

me n my housemate playing this game ytd...

it's fun..

and today truth is...

i'm sorry my friends..

i didn't mean to lied,

but out of three truths ..

only one is rite...

feel guilty inside coz,

i bet all of you is telling the truth...

i wish to answer it but .....

maybe next time..

sorry...

lying is bad,

but there r many type of lies..

for good and bad...

and all ppl lies..

including me..

1 and a half day left!!!!

*Big sigh*

another exam is coming..

on Monday and Wednesday...

still have more to learn & Understand..

actually i just need to understand the basics..

aftr that, things will be easy..

(+) do more exercise..

this is what i should do..

no promises this time..

let just see the results..

it's up to me,

whether i want to smile or cry later..

...

xoxo

14 tips to QUIT nagging

I come across this article on yahoo website and find it very interesting as it. Actually, I do find myself quite naggy thus this article should come in handy. I've been reading many interesting articles these day, articles that let me learn something new and maybe i can use it to make myself act more mature..suddenly remember Sir badrul, our Bel lecturer...here goes the articles..enjoy it..

StOP nagging?
This is something to strive for. But even if we can’t reach that point, most of us could cut back on the nagging. Here are some strategies that have worked for me:

1. It’s annoying to hear a hectoring voice, so suggest tasks without words. When my husband needs a prescription filled, he puts his empty medicine bottle on the bathroom counter. Then I know to get it re-filled.

2. If you need to voice a reminder, limit yourself to one word. Instead of barking out, “Now remember, I’ve told you a dozen times, stop off at the grocery store, we need milk, if you forget, you’re going right back out!” Instead, call out, “Grocery store!” or “Milk!”

3. Don’t insist that a task be done on your schedule. “You’ve got to trim those hedges today!” Says who? Try, “When are you planning to trim the hedges?” If possible, show why something needs to be done by a certain time. “Will you be able to trim the hedges before our party next week?”

4. Remind your partner that it’s better to decline a task than to break a promise. My husband told me that he’d emailed some friends to tell them we had to miss their dinner party to go to a family dinner—but he hadn’t. Then I had to cancel at the last minute. Now I tell him, “You don’t have to do it. But tell me, so I can it.”

5. Have clear assignments. I always call repairmen; he always empties the Diaper Genie.

6. Every once in a while, do your sweetheart’s task, for a treat. This kind of pitching-in wins enormous goodwill.

7. Assign chores based on personal priorities. I hate a messy bedroom more than my husband, but he hates a messy kitchen more than I. So I do more tidying in the bedroom, and he does more in the kitchen.

8. Do it yourself. I used to be annoyed because we never had cash in the house. Then I realized: why did I get to assign that job? Now I do it, and we always have cash, and I’m not annoyed.

9. Settle for a partial victory. Maybe your partner won’t put dishes in the dishwasher, but getting them from the family room into the sink is a big improvement.

10. Re-frame: decide that you don't mind doing a chore — like putting clothes in the hamper or hanging up wet towels. Surprisingly, this is easier than you’d think.

11. Don’t push for the impossible. My husband knows that there’s no way I’ll do anything relating to our car, so he doesn’t even ask.

12. No carping from the sidelines. If your partner got the kids dressed, don’t mock the outfits. If you want something done your way, do it yourself.

13. Think about how money might be able to buy some cheap happiness. Could you find a teenager to mow the lawn? Could you hire a weekly cleaning service? Could you buy prepared foods? Eliminating conflict in a relationship is a high happiness priority, so this is a place to spend money if it can help.

14. Remember that messy areas tend to stay messy, and tidy areas tend to stay tidy. If you want your partner to be neat, be neat yourself!

I admit that these tips are practically useless, however, in a situation where one person is absolutely oblivious for the need for chores to be done. I have it easy, because if anything, my husband is more chore-oriented than I am. If a person simply does not care, it’s practically impossible to get him or her to participate.